Monday, June 21, 2010

Condemnation is a many dangerous thing

I know this is a christina thinking but having seen sooo many students and their different issues with life..I really came to see how poisonous condemnation is...

It can come in small amounts but every pinch of condemnation and guilt added together...makes a big difference..esp since we humans dont forget our guilt easily..it all rools up into a big snowball and while we dont get paralysed 1 fine day..by it...it does result in a gradual increase in lack of self esteem..maybe the loss of friendships..maybe..the loss of self-motivation and gradual lack of confidence in fulfilling our own dreams.

COndemnation is what stops us from thinking better of ourselves..stops our confidence from growing.

You may ask abt over confidence...well my observation has taught me that over confident people are actually people who are insecure..hence lack of confidence.

In reality..over confidence is the lack of confidence that is disgused with fake confidence...or over enthusiasm to show that they are not confident.

Truthfully..I too suffer from this..

And alot of people suffer from lack of confidence from their background history..family issues, school issues, communication problems...etc

I however honestly feel that...the prettiest children....are those who have suffered alot..who are suffereing alot....somehow or rather..they are...

God Bless

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